在美国，孩子在9岁前就必须完全掌握26种基本礼节。而在中国，这些礼节，孩子们同样也能学到。在伟才总部从各个加盟园所收集上来的信息中显示，那些将自己孩子送至伟才幼儿园加盟园所就读的妈妈们，对宝贝的表现都非常满意。经常能够听到她们称赞自己的孩子：“我的孩子真是意想不到的懂事！我们大人做的不对的地方，小家伙还会反过来‘教育’我们呢！”听！作为与国外先进教育理念看齐的伟才幼儿园，不仅带给幼儿们知识与快乐，更重要的是让孩子们在快乐中真正学会了成长。
       那么，让我们来看一下美国的幼儿在教育中都学到了什么？

1.When asking for something , say “please” .
向别人询问事情时,要说“请”。

2.When receiving something , say “Thank you” .
当接受东西时,要说“谢谢”。

3.Don’t interrupt grow-ups who are speaking with each other unless there is an emergency . They will notice you and respond when they are finished talking .
除非有意外,否则切勿打断大人们的交谈,大人谈完话后会注意到你并回答你。

4.If you do need to get somebody’s attention right away , the phrase “Excuse me” is the most polite way for you to enter the conversation .
当你需要他人的注意或想与人谈话时,最礼貌的短语是“对不起,打扰了”。

5.When you have any doubt doing something , ask permission first . It can save you from many hours of grief later .
当你不确信事情可不可以做时,先获得许可,这样可以避免日后长时间的痛苦。

6.The world is not interested in what you dislike . Keep negative opinions to yourself , or between you and your friends , and out of earshot of adults .
世人对你不喜欢的事情不感兴趣,将负面的意见留给自己或与朋友分享,不要向大人们诉苦。

7.Don’t comment on other people’s physical characteristics unless , of course , it’s to compliment them , which is always welcome .
不要对他人的外表品头论足,当然,除非是好评,好评总是受欢迎的。

8.When people ask you how you are , tell them and ask them how they are .
当别人跟你问好时,你也要回答他们,并向他们问好。

9.When you have spent time at your friend’s house , remember to thank his or her parents for having you over and for the good time you had .
当你到朋友家玩时,记住对你朋友的父母说谢谢邀请,也谢谢在一起的好时光。

10.Knock on closed doors and wait to see if there’s a response before entering .
门若是关着的情况下,要敲门,等回应再进去。

11.When you make a phone call , introduce yourself first and then ask if you can speak with the person you are calling .
当你打电话时,要先作自我介绍,然后再询问可否与你想要通话的人交谈。

12.Be appreciative and say “Thank you” for any gift receive . In the age of e-mail , a handwritten thank-you note can have a powerful effect .
收到任何礼物都要感恩,并说“谢谢”。在电子邮件的年代,手写的感谢卡价值尤显珍贵。

13.Never use foul language in front of adults .Grown-ups already know all those words , and they find them boring and unpleasant .
在大人面前绝不可以说粗话,大人早知道这些脏话,他们觉得脏话沉闷又粗鲁。

14.Don’t call people mean names .
不要给人起卑劣的绰号。

15.Do not make fun of anyone for any reason . Teasing shows others you are weak , and ganging up on someone else is cruel .
不要因任何原因取笑任何人,取笑人表明你很软弱,与别人合伙来欺负人是很残忍的事。

16.Even if a play or an assembly is boring , sit through it quietly and pretend that you are interested . The performers and presenters are doing their best .
即使戏剧或集会很乏味,仍然要安静地坐到最后,假装你是感兴趣的。表演者和演讲者都在尽全力。

17.If you bump into somebody , immediately say “Excuse me” .
若不小心碰撞到别人,要立即说“对不起”。

18.Cover your mouth when you cough or sneeze , and don’t pick your nose in public .
咳嗽或打喷嚏时,要遮住嘴,不要当众挖鼻孔。

19.As you walk through a door , look to see if you can hold it open for someone else .
当你穿走门道时,看看你能否为他人扶门。

20.If you come across a parent , a teacher , or a neighbor working on something , as if you can help . if they say “Yes” , do so . you may learn something new .
你父母、老师或邻居在做事情时,若你经过,你可以询问是否可以帮助他们,若他们说“可以”,你便可以去帮他们,也许你会从中学到新的东西。

21.When an adult asks you for a favor , do it without grumbling and with a smile .
大人请你帮忙时,带着微笑毫无怨言地去做。

22.When someone helps you , say “Thank you” . That person will likely want to help you again . This is especially true with teachers !
当别人帮助你试,要说“谢谢”。帮助你的人回更愿意再帮助你,尤其是对老师而言。

23.Use eating utensils properly . If you are unsure how to do so , ask your parents to teach you or watch what adults do .
正确的使用餐具,若不太确信如何使用,问一下父母,让他们教你,或观察其他大人是如何使用的。

24.Keep a napkin on you lap , use it to wipe your mouth when necessary .
用餐时,将餐巾纸放膝上,需要时用纸巾擦嘴。

25.Don’t reach for things at the table , ask to have them passed .
用餐时,不要伸出手去拿桌上的东西,要请别人将食物传给你。

26.Usually Americans will see if there are beef row just before dinner , today’s food if there is beef now , don’t drink milk , two food eat together is so cruel . Cattle already very hard , it is to eat grass , you drinking the milk , eat its meat was too unkind to it .
通常美国人在吃饭前会看看是否有牛肉拍,今天的饭菜如果有牛排,就不要喝牛奶了。两种食物一起吃太残忍了，牛已经很辛苦了,它吃的是草,你吃它的肉还要喝它的奶,对她太不仁慈了。